Romans 13,8-12
Do we have Advent traditions?
I do not know how the time of Advent is for you.
Do you have traditions to celebrate Advent?
When I was a child, we had many traditions.
On Sunday our family came together in the living room. On the table there was an Advent wreath. We lit a candle, we sang, we read, and we sat together in the candlelight. Advent was a time of waiting, but also a time of activity. I can still remember the smell of Christmas cookies that my mother baked together with us.
Advent … it comes again every year.
It is part of the rhythm of our life, the rhythm of the church year.
Also outside, in the streets, we can see something like a “new Advent”, but in a very different way. There, people do not really wait. The shops are decorated for Christmas, the streets are full of lights for Christmas. And this happens every year earlier than the year before.
This year I even saw one shop full of Christmas lights and decorations already at the end of September or the beginning of October. And it was not one of those special shops that sell Christmas decorations all year long, like we sometimes see in the north of Europe. It was a normal shop. For me this was a kind of record.
So yes, Advent comes every year.
But: what kind of Advent is it?
Advent: learning to wait
Advent means: to wait.
To wait for the future.
To wait for the One who is coming.
But today it seems that many people are not really waiting for Christ. It looks like they are waiting for something else: for Black Friday.
Black Friday – the Friday to buy many things at a good price.
The black Friday of consumerism.
This “black Friday” stands in strong contrast with another kind of Friday that many young people talk about: the FFF, “Fridays for Future”. These are the Fridays when students go on strike to think about the future of our planet.
But the “black Friday” of consumerism does not open the future. It closes it.
It is not helping the planet. It is not protecting creation.
We also know other “Black Fridays” in our history: the Black Fridays of the stock markets. We know that for the stock markets it is sometimes enough that a small rumour starts to spread, and suddenly shares lose their value, or they become much more expensive. Sometimes the quick fall of the markets has very serious consequences for many people.
The first “Black Friday” of this kind was in England in 1866, when a bank went bankrupt. In 1869 there was a Black Friday in the USA. In 1873 in Vienna. And in 1929 the whole world entered a time of crisis.
Paul, in his letters, speaks about a very different future.
Not a future that leads us into crisis and climate catastrophe – the “black Friday” of consumption.
Not a future that leads us to the edge of world crises – the “black Friday” of the stock markets.
For Paul, the “Black Friday” that really matters is in the past. The word “Black Friday” first comes from Good Friday, the day when Jesus of Nazareth died on the cross.
The “First Black Friday”: Good Friday
Compared to the other “Black Fridays” of human history, this “Black Friday” – Good Friday – opens a new future. It brings blessing, not curse.
Why?
Because some people, including Paul, see in that terrible death on the cross an act of love. They see it like this because the message of this man, who died on the cross, was a message that went against the stream, against the religious leaders of his time. It was a message made real in actions and in words.
The central theme: the unconditional love of God for all his creatures.
This message questioned the powers of that time. And so Jesus “had to” die. But death did not win. From the “Black Friday” of Jesus a new life began.
The empty tomb is a sign of a great change in the story of the world: God is not pushed away, God is not eliminated on the cross. The travelling teacher continues to change the destiny of the world and to open for us the horizon of divine love. As sisters and brothers we are all sons and daughters of our Father in heaven, and we walk in the “magnetic field” of his love.
This is what stands behind Paul and his letters.
Even if Paul never met Jesus of Nazareth in person, he draws from the love that Jesus preached and lived. Jesus opens new horizons in the life of Paul. Paul changes from a persecutor of the young church into a witness of a love that nobody and nothing can take away from us.
The love of God, also in Paul, changed an enemy into a brother.
What are we waiting for? Or: Who are we waiting for?
Every year we remember this story. And we remember that this story is not finished yet.
But we must change the question.
The question “What are we waiting for?” is not enough.
The better question is: “Who are we waiting for?”
Advent is not only about waiting for a feast, or for some free days, or for good food and presents. Advent is waiting for a person: for Christ.
Paul writes that we should not hold back the love that God showed us in Christ, who will come again. For Paul, love is the only thing we still owe – the only “debt” that remains.
He says: “Do not owe anything to anyone, except to love one another.”
All other debts have been paid. Once and for all.
This is why love is the fulfilment of the law.
When we love, we live what God desires.
This sounds very beautiful, but it is also very concrete.
To love means:
- to see the other person as a child of God,
- to respect their dignity,
- to care for their needs,
- to protect their life and their future,
- to forgive when they hurt us,
- and to ask forgiveness when we have hurt them.
The world is suffering.
Paul says: the whole creation “groans”, like a woman giving birth.
The world is waiting.
Advent wants to remind us that the future of God has already begun in Jesus Christ.
The light has already come into the darkness.
The new life has already started.
We are not at the end of the story. We are somewhere in the middle.
A different witness in a “Black Friday” world
So what does this mean for us today, in our world of Black Fridays and full shops?
Maybe this:
Let us live in such a way that the world can expect something from us.
Let us live so that people can really wait for something good when they meet Christians.
Let us not be only witnesses of the “Black Friday of consumption”, which closes the future.
Let us be witnesses of the only “Black Friday” that has opened the future: the Good Friday of Jesus Christ.
When we love each other, when we help, when we share, when we protect creation, when we stand with the weak, when we forgive – then we show that the love of God is real. Then we show that the future of God has already started.
Every small act of love is like lighting a candle in the darkness.
And Advent is exactly this: lighting candles, not only on the wreath, but in our daily life. In a dark world, even a small light is visible from far away.
Conclusion
So, in this time of Advent, I invite you:
- to remember your own stories and traditions of Advent,
- to look at the many “Black Fridays” of our time with clear eyes,
- and to fix your eyes on the first and true “Black Friday”, on Good Friday, where the love of God opened a new future.
Let us ask ourselves, not only “What am I waiting for?” but “Who am I waiting for?”
And let us not keep for ourselves the love that has been shown to us in Christ, who will come again.
Because, as Paul says, love is the only thing that we still owe to God and to the world.
May God help us to live this love,
so that the world can see a light,
and so that our Advent becomes a real time of hope.
Amen.
Intercessory Prayer for Advent
Holy God,
we thank you for this time of worship.
We thank you for the season of Advent,
for this time of waiting and hope.
You are the God who comes to us.
You are the God who opened a new future for us
on the cross of Jesus,
on that first “Black Friday” we call Good Friday.
Thank you for your love that never ends.
Lord, in your mercy,
hear our prayer.
For the Church
God of love,
we pray for your Church all over the world.
Help your people to wait for you,
not only to wait for Christmas as a feast,
but to wait for Christ as a person.
Make your Church a light in the darkness.
Where we are afraid, give us courage.
Where we are divided, give us unity.
Where we are tired, give us new strength.
Teach us to love one another,
because love is the only debt that remains.
Lord, in your mercy,
hear our prayer.
For the World and Its “Black Fridays”
God of all nations,
we bring before you our world
with all its fears and troubles.
We think of the “Black Friday” of consumerism.
So many people feel pushed to buy more and more.
So many feel empty and alone,
even if they have many things.
Help us to live in a simple way.
Help us not to close the future with our consumption.
Help us to remember people who cannot buy,
who struggle to pay their rent,
who do not know how to feed their families.
We think also of the “Black Fridays” of the financial markets.
We remember all those who have lost work,
house, savings and security
because of economic crises.
Be close to all who suffer in this way.
Give wisdom to those who have power in politics and in the economy.
Turn their hearts from greed to justice,
from profit to service.
Lord, in your mercy,
hear our prayer.
For Creation and the Future of the Planet
Creator God,
you saw that your creation was good.
And yet today the earth is crying.
The climate is changing,
the oceans are warming,
animals and plants are disappearing.
We hear the “groaning” of creation.
Forgive us
for the ways we have hurt your world
by our way of life.
We pray for all who work for the protection of creation:
for scientists, activists, politicians,
for young people who go out on “Fridays for Future”,
and for all who try to change their daily habits.
Give us also the courage to change.
Help us to use less, to waste less,
to live as guests on this earth,
and not as owners.
Lord, in your mercy,
hear our prayer.
For the Suffering, the Lonely, the Afraid
Merciful God,
you know every person by name.
You see every tear that falls.
We pray for all who are suffering today:
for the sick,
for those who wait for a diagnosis,
for those who are in hospital or at home in pain.
We pray for people who feel alone,
for the elderly who see fewer friends every year,
for migrants far from their home,
for those who do not speak the local language well
and feel isolated.
We pray for those who are afraid of the future,
who do not know if they will have work,
if they can stay in this country,
if their children will be safe.
Be close to each one of them.
Send people who can help and listen.
Use us also as your hands and feet,
so that our love is not only words,
but also concrete actions.
Lord, in your mercy,
hear our prayer.
For Ourselves
God of grace,
you changed Paul from an enemy into a brother.
You can also change our hearts.
Where there is bitterness in us,
give us the desire to forgive.
Where there is hate in us,
plant your love.
Where there is indifference in us,
open our eyes for the pain of others.
In this Advent time,
teach us to ask not only,
“What am I waiting for?”
but “Who am I waiting for?”
Help us to open the door of our hearts to Christ,
and to see his face in the people around us:
in the poor,
in the stranger,
in the one who is difficult to love.
Lord, in your mercy,
hear our prayer.
Into your hands, good Father,
we place all the prayers we have spoken,
and also the silent prayers in our hearts.
We trust in your love
shown to us in Jesus Christ,
the One who has opened the future for us.
We pray in his holy name,
Jesus Christ our Lord.
Amen.
Blessing
24 The Lord bless you and keep you;
25 the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you;
26 the Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.
Jens Hansen
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